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By admin, September 24, 2009 2:48 am

When I heard I can be the head teacher of next fresh students, I was overwhelmed with joy. How I long to get the title as well as the opportunities! Throughout university years, I have been trying my best to grasp opportunities to grow up. I am afraid of being rejected by society. I am worried I will not be a qualified graduate in two years. I am working hard to realize every dream. So you can imagine how happy I was when I got the opportunity to contact students and train my ability as well as character. Pride and excitement swelled in my heart when hearing the news.

     However, Terry, my roomate got a better opportunity. She becomes the League Branch Secretary and Party Branch Secretary. In the contrast, I am nobody. In the very beginning, I was very jealous. I thought I should have done better, or at the very least the equal job with her. Later, my wisdom and vanity reconciled with each other.

     I admit I am full of vanity sometimes. I long to get high titles. I am proud of being beyond peers. I want to stand out in millions. It is part of my character.

     On the other hand, I know in a person’s lifetime,it is what you do in your position rather than what position you grasp in hand that really matters.Social stations are for few god’s favored ones. When they don’t turn up for you, you have to be prepared and wait for their arrival. Once they come, you must treaure what people give you as you are trusted. Grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. We must know vanity will ruin our sense of responsibility.

     So I am determined to do the best I can. Honor is the reward of hard work rather than the aim. True happiness lies in your service for the majority.

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By admin, September 23, 2009 1:14 am

Everone knows that happy and enjoyable working time will be welcome .As a matter of fact, the  efficiency will also be improved in that situation.Thus here I would like to come up with 5 tips ,which I hope will be beneficial for all of you.

First , remember to record you task and plan when you start .Usually,we will lost some task in our work .so, in the working day .we must keep to write down what you need to do today.more about the working descrīption and open close date.it is enough for you to know what you have completed and what you still need to perform.So. that ,you could not lost and forget any thing in you working every day .if your boss give you task .you could remember it  deeply.and finished it on time .it maybe be popular by you employer.

Second ,you should plan everything ahead.Every task we need pay more carful to plan ,the good aim and the easy goals will be excellent.that will be easy to achiever and get more proud,we need pay some seconds to plan what we need to do and which we need to start first when we start to working every day .it is useful and easy to say which is more important and which one is more urgent.So,we need to select some task to do first and disregard some item which it isnot heavy job.

Third,you may ceate a work schedule.Now you have a clean desk and a single To-Do list. You’re now ready to create a work schedule. Look at the month ahead and plan your time carefully. Make sure that the important items are scheduled to be done first. Never fill your calendar more than 80%, so that you’re available when unexpected tasks crop up.

Last but not least,please carry out your job and assign your assignment to you assistant.Usuallymore task could not be complete by ourself ,So. we need to assign some task to some one who be responsible in it.also. we need to estimate the task could easy achiever by you select one.

Finally,you should always stick to your job.It’s hard, but stick to it. Keep your desk clear. Keep a single To-Do list and update it daily. And if you have more than 5 post-it notes on your desk, then you know you’re getting back into clutter. Keep a focused mind and work smart using these simple but effective time management tips.

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Those who are well-educationed but without any ability can’t find a room to stand in this fierce society.Of course educational background plays an important role in our daily life. In my opinion, When they conflict with each other,abitly is more important than educational background.
High educational background doesn’t mean excellent ability, on the contrary, excellent ability doesn’t mean high educational background as well. Between them we can’t take it for granted and think that they are equivalent.It’s a normal phenomena. Nevertheless, there are still a great deal peole spend too much time and energy in pursuing high educational background. In their eyes, it’s more important than ability.So if they succeed in getting into a big company and landing a good post ,they may content with the current situation. But a few months later, they may get fired due to the capacity.
Actually, we can’t have an analogy to educational background and ability. The level of educational background can only reflect the degree of a people’s education. Among those people with the same educational background, there are many difference between them. Ability must be cultivated in society, and we should accumulate working experience in working to improve ourselves. Accordingly,when a enterprise employs a member of his company, he may take a right attitude to it lest they make unreasonale mistakes to hire a competent & suitable one.
As the saying goes: Live and learn! Acquiring knowledge and improving ability is the most impotant thing throughout our life. The modern society is filled with competitions and challenges, in order to keep up with the pace of the development, there’s no doubt that we must enrich ourselves!!! Keep going on, or we may fall behind!!

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There’s no doubt that we’ll be in different and strange environment towards the road to life. In strange environment, someone used to keeping a straight face to protect his own dignity from getting harm and infringe of the outside. As a result, strange environment also keeps its own appearance. The danger we worry about is still around us. Consequently, we don’t relax ourselves but to make us more tired and exhausted. What a terrible thing!

If we change our expression, instead of the indifferent and arrogant dignity & keeping a straight face. We may feel better. Let’s smile at all the things may happen on us.In the first place, learning to smile at strange environment is a kind of release & calmness. Facing to strangers, we should show more empressement & kindness. There is no need for us to pretend for them since we’re only the passers-by in the life. Your coldness in manner, his coldness in manner, or all the people’s coldness in manner compose the strange environment. What’s worse, it restricts our communication and intercourse.

However,we learn to smile to the strangers, your smile, his smile, all the people’s smile can make us feel comfortable and warm, easy and joyful. Although we keep silence, we can feel that we are not stangers any longer, but in a harmonious and warm environment. learning to smile at strange environment is a kind of representation of self-esteem, self-love, and self-assurance. Smile is the most beautiful expression on human appearances; it is a silent language in social life. It comes from the kindness, tolerance and  selflessness. Smile is the confidence of the successful and the adamancy of the failed. Smile is a kind of respect to others, also a kind of praise for the affection and single-heart.Smile is a bond of personal relationship, also a effective prescrīption to make enemies to be friends.

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By admin, September 22, 2009 1:27 am

While we do this or that,we always hold our own aims in heart.In fact,the ultimate aim of doing all the things in our life is the same and timeless.Yeah,just for joviality.
Life is so short with much hardship,joviality is the only thing what we need.
Just think what we are doing everyday?studying,working and do any entertainments.These are the most three important aspects in life we can’t part.Doing entertainments is certain to have joyfuless and make our body and mind relax most directly,for example,some people like reading,doing sports or surfing on the internet….
However,while we are studying or working,most of people would dream of earning more and more money except those few people who regard them as hobbies.And have we ever imagined about those days having lots of money in the future?Of course,most of people would say:I would buy this or that,I would travel around the world and so on!yeah,at that time,money is not just itself,it can change into joyfulness and excitement of ours.
Of course,those people who likes saving money in their lives most are so stupid,because they don’t understand the real use of money.Maybe they would gain some gratification by doing that,however,it is much less than using money reasonably.
Why should we study?for having a good job,then earn more money all the same in the end?then money would bring us lots of thing we like and lots of satisfaction.
Even if we can’t get a good job or earn much money,but we still think ourselves with inner quality.Then our confidence can bring us much joyfulness as well.Yeah,those the real aim of our working hard.
It is just that sentence:The things what we are doing are just for happiness!

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So many people are complaning about others , saying about how wrong other people have done!However,If you are cleverer  , never say that again .All of us are just most common people,merely some are a bit selfish,some are more selfish.
In most people eyes,who treat them well,then call them kind person, who treat them bad,then call them bad men.But actually is that so simple?
I think there are many people with good humanness,they should be called real good men.They would think of others first,then themselves!They would feel more painful if they hurt others.They would always keep on thinking about how to repay those people who have ever helped them.They never mention others’ heartbreak.They would listen to those people very carefully who need audience to confide their worries.They never take any terrible ways to defeat others to get joyfulness.They would try to keep their promise and seldom say lies facing the proper business.They won’t find other’s faults on purpose,because they always have an understanding heart.They would see the rich and the poor with the eyes,even they would show their more kindness facing those poor.
Although they find their real love outside marriage some day,they won’t do something what they shouldn’t do!Because they know that they won’t get happiness even if they get  real love,because they know it’s base on their previous families’s happiness!
Of course,those people do the opposite things,I would think them terrible!Especially those people whose joyfulness bases on other’s pains.
In fact,there aren’t real goodness or badness,merely we have different ways of thinking or doing things,they depend on many parts,such as our family background,our experience,our characters and so on.Try to understand each other,then life will be much nicer!When you are angry with someone’s doing very much,then be quiet and try to think it merely a bit different from your ways of doing things.And you  will  never change any of them!To be yourself is OK!
Colourful life with mixed people!

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Love is just another way of a kind of passion.It’s based on your liking.And all of people want to hold it all life,but later,they found there won’t be eternal passion,it’s certain passion is just a kind of short feelings.so at last,they said goodbye to their love in big disappointement. Slowly,many people understood that love was just short of a kind.Originally,the LOVE we are always talk of  is not like what we are imagining.However, if it can’t stand the test of time,how can we call it “LOVE”?In fact,it represents eternality,but nobody can acheive it.

Love is too nice,and everyone of us wants  to possess it,love is just a kind of feeling.How to keep it fresh and hold it well forever?Say goodbye while you both feel in the sweetest state,can you do it? Of course not,you must be designing your both nice future at that time.

However,we all know when a thing reaches its extreme, it reverses its course.After the stage of the sweetest state,what are waiting for you?Of course,most of them are disappointments,complains due to compared with former days.Maybe you would be very confused about that,where has the past love gone?What things have I done wrongly?Couldn’t tell me he doesn’t love me again?

In fact.No anwers to those questions above at all,the only problem is that the distance between you both is getting too near and the time you have spent being together is getting longer and longer.

There’s no beautiful scene at arm’s length,this sentence is true,which we must accept it.In addition,time can wear away passion between you,feeling of freshness is gone little by little.It should be yourself to break your love personally at last.Yeah,maybe meeting love is easy,but much harder to maintain it.

If in a family,the relation between the two will change to relative relation.So you must have a good mind-set to adate to the change of your both’s emotions and to face the passion’s fading.

Then how to keep love fresh?how to keep it treasured in your heart?You can get it,and we know that the person who we aren’t able to possess or live together is indefective in each other’s heart,of course,and then the wonderful feeling between you both will be treasured in your both deep heart all life and it can become the nicest memory.Even you think it as your love forever because of its

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By admin, September 21, 2009 3:16 am

Our society seems to have shown great concern over children’s safety and many policies were enforced to ensure it. At the same time, parents nowadays care more of their children. But, still, children will be in invisible danger in many occasions.

First, the holiday can be very frightening for little children.

We can frequently see the scene below:

“At the market area in the residential community, children played and wandered unsupervised, in and out of the market, which is being renovated. Nobody warned them of the dangers of the construction site. Out in the sun, a boy ate an ice cream cone right beside the roadside. A child is alone at home, cooking all by himself. Right beside him was the knife and boiled water.”

 During the holiday season, emergency room doctors say they expect to care for more children who are injured while playing by themselves. When children are in school, they are taken good care of by teachers. They stay at the same place and what they do is watched by the teacher. Thus, there would be a slight possibility for them to be caught in danger. While they are on holiday, their parents must work. They are either left alone at home, or allowed to play outside as they please. However, they are not able to take care of themselves and tell the danger. As a consequence, holiday can be very frightening for them.

Secondly, Children can be struck by cars while wearing vision-obstructing masks and dark costumes.

Occasionally, we would see children pester their parents for masks. Mask seems to be an indispensable toy for children. They can play with it and have great fun. Some masks soft and comfortable for little faces, while others, though pretty, are vision-obstructing. Wearing those masks would prevent the child from seeing the object ahead clearly. Then, a car accident is likely to take place. Likewise, if the child wears dark costumes, it would be difficult for the car drivers to tell. Thus, the child can be struck by the car.

What’s more, there are also incidents involving deadly treats: fruits, cookies, and candies that contain razor blades or even poison.

 Children are also found to have choked on or inhaled something they should never have put in their mouth. Most parents and care-givers watch carefully when their young children eat. But what if the cookies and candies contain some deadly treats? We can hardly avoid this. As a matter of fact, this kind of incidents nowadays is not rare.

No doubt that nowadays children enjoy a better standard of living. The highly-developed society provides them with many good qualifications. We can not ignore that children are also in invisible danger in many occasions. We should realize this and take measures

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  Everyone’s life is like a long journey,we never stopping walk,and we can see a wide variety of scenery along the road , as well with countlessly frusrations.But if we always choose to bear everything in mind, we may bring ourselves a lot of  additional burden.Always the richer experience we had, the greater pressure we bear.So we might as well forget what we had undergo along the road, and always keep traveling lightly. The past has passed, time can not be back, thus we need not bear any grudge in addition to some lessons and precious experience.

   Being willing to forget is a kind of psychological balance, need to frankly face life in good faith. Some people can not forget the embarrassment and distress when frustrated, but ignored the proud delight in talking about good times, do you not know the successes and failures will remain the same as in the past, always wallow in the past can not be relieved, and often said that I was young, how will it be, to take yesterday When the beautiful yellow eyes, so solo stay forever in their hearts, complacent, smug, stuck among themselves and false, they will procrastinate, hesitate. Hero did not mention as in the past is justified. The pain of the past repeated chewing, always face is even more undesirable in Kutaichoushen. Indian poet Rabindranath Tagore said, “If you cry for the loss of the sun, you will lose the stars.” Preoccupied with the trivial, rotten corn sesame Chan to heart, I’m afraid the ship of souls will be overwhelmed, and most probably the future will be pined down by the bitter past ,what’s worse,the success may be delayed just because of this.

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    We may often times hear people say: Man who does great things never care too much of the details. Actually, many facts have proved this kind of philosophy to be untrue.

     As we are now college students, what we care much is the communicationwith our friends. When they are ill, we try to take care of them; when they are in trouble, we do our best to help them out and when they are sad, we share sorrows with them. what we do to our friends are some tiny little things for us ourselves. We just give them a hand when they need us. While for them, those little warmth can bring them a lot of comforts and help them to overcome the difficulties. As a proverb goes” A friend in need is a friend indeed.” These details can accumulate in ther heart. As to myself, i would feel sad all day and have no mood to do anything if i didn’t get along well with my friends. As a matter of fact, even a smile may win you a heart friend while just because of a little behaviour, you may  lost your best friend. That tells how important the details are!

    My teacher once told us:”You may make every effort to decorate your composition, making it sound fluent and beatiful. However, several spelling mistakes can ruin your whole work.” Recently, mother told me that my cousin was almost fired just because she was seen crossing her legs in the office while at work. I was shocked greatly, but on a secons thought, i came to know the importance of such a small action.

     I  once hear a starter of a movie.”Something starts small and something starts big. but sometimes, the smallest thing can make the biggest change:” Up till now, i evetually get to know it. What determines is detail!

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