Bank Of Life

By admin, November 24, 2009 9:05 am

There are four two-year-old young people go to the bank loans, bank agreed to lend a large sum of money each of them, on condition that they must pay off the principal and interest, within fifty years to see huge sum of money will soon arrived, four young people are very readily accept the conditions of the bank. The first twenty-five years of youth would like to play with life, the last twenty-five years to repay the debt, then this guy to a 70-year-old is still nothing, die Shihai heavily in debt. His name is: lazy.
The second youth with the hard work of twenty-five years ago, 50-year-old when he paid off all the arrears, but he fell ill on that day, and soon the man would kick in. He wears a casket with a small card on which was written the name: fanaticism. The third young hard working, 70-year-old, he paid off all the debt, but after a few days, he lost consciousness, and his death notice reads the name: perseverance.
The fourth youth work for forty years, 60 years old, he repaid all the debt, and then the last decade of life, to become a traveler on earth in many countries he has traveled before, 70-year-old, he surface died with a smile, people remember his name is: calmly. Year loans to these four young people’s banks are: Bank of life.

Tolerance Of The Highest Level.

By admin, November 23, 2009 9:43 am

During World War II, an army encounter in the forest clashed with the enemy, the last two soldiers lost contact with the troops. The reason they can care for one another in fierce fighting with each other, regardless, because they are from the same small-town comrades. The two long and difficult journey in the forest, mutual encouragement and comfort. More than 10 days have passed, they have not been contacted with the troops, fortunately, they killed a deer, venison and can rely on to spend a few days of tough. Perhaps the reason may be because of the war, animals flee or kill, after that they never see any animals. With just some of the venison, back in the young soldier’s body.
This day they encountered the enemy in the forest, after heavy fighting, once again, the two skillfully avoided the enemy. Just as they think they have security, only heard a gunshot, walking in front of the young soldiers in a shot, thanks to the shoulder. The fellow behind the trepidation ran over, he was afraid of was incoherent, hold our comrade’s body is more than tears, rushed to his shirt torn off the wound dressing comrades. Night, without the injured soldiers have been her mother’s lips, eyes Zhi Gougou’s. They all think their lives coming to an end, no one moving around the venison.God knows how they had of that night. The next day, troops rescued them. After a lapse of 30 years later, the soldiers who were injured Anderson said: “I know who shot it opened, he is my comrade in arms. He died last year. In his clinging to me, I came across his barrel fever But that night I’ll forgive him. I know he would like to take the venison pocketed me survive, but I also know that he survived to his mother. after 30 years, I pretended did not know this, but also from not to mention.War is too cruel, and his mother still did not wait for his return, he and I together and pay homage to the elderly. He knelt down and asked me to forgive him, I did not let him go on. We have also done 20 years of friends, I have no reason not to forgive him. “Put down of tolerance. A person can tolerate other people’s stubborn, self-righteous, arrogant, rude, arrogant ignorance, it is difficult to tolerate for their own malicious slander and fatal injuries. But only good for evil, to hurt for themselves, let the world fewer Unfortunately, the return of warm, kind, friendly and peaceful, is the tolerance of the highest level.

Habits And Natural

A small pole, a length thin chain, tied to an extremely heavy weight of the elephant grass-roots units, this is not ridiculous? But it’s ridiculous scenes can be seen everywhere in India and the state of Qin. Those who tame the Elephant Man, in an elephant or a small elephant, when it will use a chain tied to concrete columns or steel columns, no matter how small elephant could not break free of struggle. A small elephant gradually got used to not struggle, until long into an elephant, could easily break free when the chain does not struggling,Tiger were tame, like the Elephant Man would have been as successful, he would let tigers vegetarian since childhood, until the tigers grow up. I do not know the tiger meat, naturally do not hurt. Tame tiger’s fatal mistake is that he threw the net pay after he was let Tiger licking the blood flow in the ground, the tiger is not a lick close, and finally eaten by the tiger. Elephant is a chain tied, while the elephants are being used to bind.
Tiger had been used to tie, while the others died of tiger habit (he has used his tiger does not eat people). Used to tie up almost everything, but I will not tie occasionally. For example Nazhi tiger accidentally tasted blood.

Being Faced With Misunderstanding

Everyone is afraid of misunderstanding, from the star to those of us civilians, no one say no fear of misunderstanding. Very often, someone else’s mistake would give his life and work even more or less damage community relations and inconvenience. Misunderstanding like life a unique landscape, occupying our existence to a corner of a room at certain times. In some scenarios where we can see the occurrence of misunderstanding, or takes place in our body, or takes place in someone else’s body.
Misunderstanding is that each people will always come across things. I when we encounter, it may be you have misunderstood the others, it may be other people will misunderstand you. Do not know the situation of both sides under the premise of misunderstanding will be more naturally produced, but also seems to misunderstand the ritual has become a kind of interaction.
The face of misunderstanding, everyone would choose to explain the truth and rationale. But some will never be mistaken for a way to explain the clear, just like some Qianguzhimi can only wait for time and timing of it could be truth. Some misunderstanding, the more you explain, others deeper but your misunderstanding. On the contrary, some misunderstandings can be 32 words in the authenticity of people understand that this matter, and this in fact depends on the misunderstanding of the relationship between the two and deal with the manner and attitude.No one would say that misunderstanding is a good thing. Throughout thousands of years, be able to misunderstanding into a beautiful story that not many people. Some people lost their lives because of misunderstanding, and some people feel lost because of misunderstanding, but it was because of misunderstanding tired exchanges.
If the mistake is really unfortunate happen to you, you do not have too much panic and fear. You can choose to face it to speak, to explain things clearly. It can also choose to silence, maintaining that you do not want to tell you the truth; also it can be ignored with equanimity, or to laugh it off to keep secret. In short, it is important to use a good attitude to deal with it.

Personal Value

By admin, November 22, 2009 9:24 am

Values are from the world, life decisions on the value of the basic concepts of human life and social practice in the activities carried out in understanding and evaluation of the basic ideas held by its core is about the people how to live a basic point of view makes sense. The so-called value of life means life to meet the social, others and their own need to have meaning. It is an important aspect of life, but also the values of important content. The value of life, including the social value of life and self-worth two aspects. Are the object of any value that satisfy the main needs of the meaning of the value of people as well.However, in social practice, the value of relationships in the subject, object location is not fixed, who is the main body is the object, is the organic unity of subject and object. One person, one hand, the value of the principal, he others and society as objects of their own value, he is the main need has its own needs, he has to rely on other people and social activities and results to meet their own needs, which that is what we usually refer the request to the community, or social respect for the individual and satisfaction.
That meet the needs for the individual to exist and develop, from a personal point of view, it is his self-worth, in other words, individuals, through their own activities from others and society, where access to the necessary information to meet their own survival and development needs, This is the so-called life, self-worth. On the other hand, he became the object of other people and social values, with its activities and results, to meet the needs of others and society, which is the social value of his life, which is commonly referred to as the individual’s social responsibility and contribution to . In the value of relationships is the main object of the unity of the value of life is also the social value of life and the unity of self-worth.
Attitude toward life is the life path chosen by the people and their behavior tendencies and the survival and development approach, it is an important aspect of life. We should establish the scientific outlook on life and values, we must correct life, coordinate and maintain positive, optimistic, cheerful attitude toward life.

Outside The Door

Each of us is a window of the soul, while the soul of all things outside of it constitutes a life of colorful, exceptionally enchanting world. In this colorful world, we have experienced the impermanence of life, how many times our hearts in the dark, depression, wandering, or because of failure by the setback, or because of boredom and a sense of loss. How many times our souls tormented life of hardships, Jiyu fall into the abyss of despair. In life, we often hear people complain: Why is life so unfair to do? Why give me so much hardship it?Why can not the same as the others have eternal joy and happiness? Such people simply try to complaints, only to see the trials of life to him, but never look at life from another point of view, nor change a state of mind to understand all of life.
Oscar Wilde said, people really perfect is not what he has, but that he fully understands what. Yes, optimists see opportunity in the ordeal, while the pessimist in the opportunity to see the suffering, of which the secret key is with what kind of mentality you have to look for. If you change the angle of kinds of thinking and way of life that we encounter failures, setbacks, loss or boredom will be a valuable asset.Because of these failures and setbacks exercise our will, let us experience a different life, so we feel the life of the deep, thick and rich, because hardship is a friend in high school hone our personality. If we could ever think to complain about this, then our hearts will suddenly see the light, away from the darkness of our lives will be filled with sunshine.

Never Mean Your Kindness

Often see or hear in the media waist of persons with disabilities self-improvement, to pay a normal person can not stand the pain and do something to carve out a niche. As a normal person, whom I admire deeply moved, but also ashamed of the free and. However, in reality we have to do is, is how to care, to help these vulnerable groups have difficulty in moving the body. Sent them joy. That I promise to move closer toward the unknown.
Time in the way to work, I have met and my father have worked with an old teacher, more than 70-year-old teacher’s arm due to blind his family to find the next issue of teaching to do accounting to understand Diaozi. I could pass by, but I cried a: Hi, Mr. Huang! “Good”! You? My father used to be with you ! Oh, I remember! Your father is a good man! And so on! When the respective Huanglao of smiled, and even humming to himself, what the tone. A negligible intimate as a warm greeting to the Huang-Lao, has been opened deep smile of his face. Is really beyond my expectation!Every time before I’ll find some signs Barber loud and beautiful environment of the barber shop. Not now, every time I have to visit a remote facade, barber shop leg disability. Before leaving, the barber always said: I beg your pardon and make money in! I said, this is you should get the money, this is called labor income do have!
Looking at those with disabilities, introverted, low self-esteem! Few and social interaction. But they start with things to be earnest and meticulous, even if a bit slower. So they had to peace of mind! As normal, we should take the initiative with their exchange and communication, even a word, some trivial to move, can bring them a smile, happy, satisfaction!

Friends Is To Be Treated With Heart

By admin, November 21, 2009 9:19 am

Friends, take heart to operate is that there is a certain degree of artistry. Not talking about religion, but a personal experience. For a friend, and both male and female friends, not too seriously or else the other party will feel great pressure would be suffocating pressure of your attention, but not too negligent, too negligent, it may no longer associate . Some friends, if you do too much attention to him, let him feel tired of paying you this friend, it is because you are too much attention to him, let him feel the pressure, and you can’ve worked very hard.Whether it is between friends or lovers, between pairs of each other’s emotions, is certainly not right and so on. There will always be a party to pay more, but often pay more vulnerable party. So, now when I am in and friends get along, that they will caution myself and to have control over their own pay, which would allow themselves and their friends from harm. So I would not demand that others should try not to put pressure on others, so that some of the friendship was a natural and harmonious.
In our Life, not all people can become friends. Everyone has their own attitude toward life, savoir-faire, fun-loving and personality characteristics, select the friends have their own standards and conditions. I make friends of the principle of spiritual communication and learning from each other. I often think that people living in the world, is inseparable from friendship, can not do without mutual assistance, can not do without care, can not do without support. At a friend’s difficulties and frustrations, if extended a helping hand, helping each other tide over their difficulties, overcome difficulties and useful gift than the gift more valuable, but also much more solid. Not only as a friend, it means a mutual commitment to solve problems, joy, bound together by obligations. The most important matter, friendship can be lasting always keep.
Coexistence between friends is often unintentional injury to help is sincere and forget those unintentional injuries; Bearing in mind that you truly want to help those people, you will find this world you have a lot of sincere friends

Open Another Door For Yourself

Lille came to New York in 1943 Luobotemei nightclub a club, which is located on a side street, Machang Ding Nike clubs sing. 150 yuan a week salary for new entrants to the community, Robert, this is really a large number.
It was the first time Robert sing his job earnestly. Robert liked the voice of the boss wanted to hire him immediately, but the program director for the candidates of another. He said: “Your voice sound good, but we have decided to use other people had.” Ate the cold shoulder, Robert extremely frustrating. However, the following year he came to the Metropolitan Opera sing the following year he began to sing “La Traviata”.
Interestingly, if the Luobotemei Lille to be the work of Martinique, the Metropolitan Opera’s door may never open to him. If you are a cause of the initial Xiyi and aspirations may be due to external reasons for shelling ceased abruptly, but not running around in circles, that accidental blow, perhaps to create a better opportunity to make your life on a new path. The ups and downs of life, it is proof of this truth.
Between departments is also the case that when someone pointed out to us is insufficient, first of all not going to argue to argue, but the first review is really wrong, and change is indeed true, nor as a warning to pay more attention to . Attitude is everything. The same thing, different attitudes, the result is different. Therefore, in order to do a good job, must first correct the attitude of a good.

Let Everything As It Is

No gold is pure and no one is perfect. We are all living in the same mortal on earth, rather than what the saints. We have advantages, but also has advantages. In many cases, we can not bar people want to be too perfect, perfect is not the United States. Even the so-called perfect life, that is a momentary impulse, or is to perfect of things.Say this does not mean that we should all think the world is too evil, is not, but we are a creator with a grateful heart to look at everything, even if it is not perfect, but we still have to see it the United States side. Everything has two sides, and what we should see more comprehensive information should not be because of their own strengths while ignoring their own shortcomings, while should not, because their own shortcomings while ignoring their own advantages, treat others the same.
Many people, because a person’s first impression is good, the Aiwujiwu like its all, and because a person’s impression of its total negation of everything. This is wrong, may I ask, in this world who would do without its drawbacks, we should learn from each other. Because everyone has advantages and disadvantages.Life, and others are bound to happen some contradictions, perhaps because of unilateral bear the sight of each other, or both bear the sight of each other, or because of some conflict of interest and friction are such a thing ….. normal, we can not make everyone satisfied, no matter what they do. As each person will be or can not eat everything the same truth. Very often, a lot of things, we should take things a bit.
After all, is yours is yours, not yours, after all not yours. In the world still revel in a good many things, in particular, is the friendship and love. Some people are destined not our friends, even though we see every day, but we like a parallel lines never intersect no chance, even more often, our hearts do not hope so. This world will always exist some frustration, which are helpless, we can never change. Since I can not change it, we only learn to adapt with it. Only in this way is a positive attitude on life.

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