Trouble to find a wise woman that she was a child’s homework troubles, wise man said: “The child’s homework should be the child of their own troubles Caiduiѽ!” She said: “Sir, you do not know, my child exam 40, but only 40 students in this class. “wise man joked:” If I were you, I will be very happy! “” Why? “Because you think about it, starting today, your children will not and then backward, and he would not fall into the first 41!
The Woman listening to Perfectionist laughter, the wise man continued: “It seems like mountain climbing, your child is now at the bottom of the valley people, the only way that is going up, as long as you stop trouble, to encourage him and accompany him go, he would come out of. “Some time later, the woman called the wise thanks, and she turned out the child’s achievement on the rise. Most likely to be overlooked is the valley’s lowest point is the starting point of the valley, and many can not get out into the valley of the others had come because they stopped the feet, and crouched valley trouble crying.
Take a step back space, and change their thinking from a different point of view may be some other realm! We all know this phrase, but few people can truly understand his meaning, can do it!
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Person’s life, but is an ongoing investment in expenditure and clearing process. People live to a certain age, you understand: the input-output life follow the same rules. When we overdraft, after a lifetime of happiness awaits us is only accompanied by loneliness. When we lay waste our powers for a lifetime of Our Time, only people living in poverty today, where crop failure. When we hesitate to exchange our soul, destined only emptiness and pale to be alive.
User more than once asked me: why people are not willing to forgive the wrong she had? Why all the people seem to be so happy in her life without? Internet friends, such as grievances, such as v., so I went back to their youth. When he was young, we always can not read life. Always think that life can be repeated too many opportunities, but also always believed lay aside their arms, they can deeds, but never understand the need of life settlement. About their own tolerance, we often indiscriminate indulgence, but also the courage to think that all of the errors can be committed. Only until the earth’s life, only to find mistakes of the past eventually need to foot the bill themselves.
Live can advance, but can not overdraft. Overdraft economy, let us rest of his life poor; emotional overdraft, so that we shall live and the time is interpreted as internal friction; while the soul advances, leaving behind nothing but a walking corpses. I remember a U.S. president said that a person can not face three-year-old former is responsible for, but have to face responsibility for thirty years. 3-year-old pre-human face, but a product of their parents, we are doomed to incompetence can not change. After the three-year-old face, and had filled his own words and deeds, to face view of people, wise enough to your inputs and outputs together to conduct a final assessment.
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In the river, a wolf across the river to bring several pups. In our shallow experience, it must be a one way Diao in the past. But this is not the case. Wolf for fear their children hurt, it will bite an animal, the animal’s stomach blowing enough air, and then spend the teeth bite pedicle Department, made a stuffed skin raft. Through this life, Kayaks, crossing the whole family. In the animal kingdom, the wolf is a very intelligent animals, if for a single dog with a single wolf fight, defeat surely is a dog. While the dogs and the wolves are close relatives, their size is also Nanfenbozhong.
But why defeat is always the dog? It has been careful on this issue and the dog and the Wolf for this research. It was found that long-term fed dogs by humans, because they do not face a crisis of survival, brain capacity is far smaller than the wolf: and the growth of the wolf in the wild, in order to survive, their brains are well developed, not only very creative, but also with unusual wisdom of survival. Dogs are not born stupid than the wolf, but fed by the results of the day after tomorrow. Because everything Everything has inertia, once the condition is superior. Inevitably complacency.
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Is necessary to train a few minutes opened up. Conductor holding a speaker in the site’s announcement: 1623 Passengers Please note that access to Hankow there five minutes the car will start. Please do not waste time on the bus the passengers on the train. We’ll see a few late passengers hurried to the big packages of drive train side. As the worry that the steep stairs site will be cross-step two-step down.
Female conductor see below carefully once a reminder: “Do not worry, the train five minutes before opening,” “Do not worry, do not worry, the next step when you see the foot, do not slip, and things do not fall out,” “Do not emergency, do not run “,” that lead the child, and slowly, the child can not keep up. ” Listened to over and over again, a female conductor of the patient reminder. Rushed to slow their pace, jog down the stage, after a female conductor, on the train. Laid-back found his seat. After such a warm and did not see the passengers, after which a female conductor of the Road when the softly thank you, even a smile or a nod thanks.
When the stranger you let people look at Tao, so you have more of a wide channel, you should say thank you. When you are wronged, the friend’s one consolation, if you have to say thank you. When used clothing to hand out rice to mouth by the mother for you do rice, ended to the table when you do not want to say thank you! Thank you, first people to express a feeling of emotional words, but also reflects a person’s literacy and the language of everyday rituals.
When you say thank you, you must face the sun with the same smile, be grateful to people who will feel the warmth of heart. He saw not only their own pay, but also goes on your sincere gratitude and loneliness. Whether small or Xiaohui Yan, gratitude must speak out, to a grateful heart to understand, to sentiment.
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Waiting-owned, we have met, so we had nothing to be sad! Between people of various intrigues, infighting among the, because of not satisfied of its own, in order to get the things they do not own a waste of money and the bother. Is this why bother? Meet the not a negative attitude, we have tried, we already have their due, and in those who are not their own and even get the day can not afford to live in the calculations, this not only will not be happy, but also cause great harm to the body and mind.
Life, the efforts of the process only in order to enrich life, and strive to learn to meet it should be passed, failing that, never-ending wants everything will only give himself inviting worry. Who came to this world, will not bring anything; who left this world, not to take anything away. Whatever, as long as you can is good enough, and even life tricks in the end it will only be nothing, might as well live a happy life, free to be dying before they turn ran repentance and remorse.
Satisfied, and we feel good, and at the same time, those who desire to blur our vision of the fog as the vanished. Perhaps at this moment, had not understand today’s confused, are due to see a clear and completely understand. So we will be happy because of his insights, the heart also subsequently liberalized. To meet a state, arrived in this state, all the suffering, all the wounds will disappear, replaced, and would have been happy life!
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Life’s journey is more like a curve, in the winter, watch the spring, beautiful memories in the spring, in the hunt for a beautiful twists and turns and twists and turns in the sentiment of life. We always said that the shortest distance between two points is a straight line, but in life, in fact the curve is the shortest. If the person’s life is too smooth, he would not have stopped issuing heartfelt emotion; he could only serve as a rush of passing, in walked the road did not leave a footprint. The twists and turns of life would have become a strong and passionate.
And therefore will be more jealous of their own now, someone told me that, smooth sailing journey too plain, the occasional ups and downs can lead people to a kind of feeling of being challenged, nor can there be a sense of accomplishment satisfaction. People always a contradiction on the one hand hope that their life can be carried out smoothly without any obstacles, completed, and on the other hand hope that the road can be a variety of spend. Why do people say that a straight line the shortest, the best? It is too hasty - and always when you have just reached a hill, but also toward the next one peak. It did not notice: the way the scenery is more beautiful than the success, more important things. Along the curved line after another, what is wrong with that?
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Life is like a chess opponent is the environment we live in, and some people can be expected, 10 steps. As well as Ji Shibu, the early and they make arrangements; some people can see only a few steps outside, and even take one step. And the master of the move, often a step misstep, round loser: But master chess, seeing the aftermath, it may took a dramatic turn back from the dead. Some people play chess, Lazi like flying, but there are often busy in the wrong; Some people play chess compounded by a long test at first too, which makes then stretched. Some people play chess, less than the last moment and never admit defeat; some people play chess, slight improvement in the going gets tough, they abandoned the child to surrender.
Under the banner always the more the less life is always getting short, so when you drop back the wrong child, and later to be doubled to cope with distress. The pieces a month to go, the more the remaining few will be more careful underground. Win, of course, beautiful; lose also holding up a long time. Lose less, only some face. Fortunately, those who, in life chess game, although also “hands together no return,” watching chess, they just do not have to “watching chess is not words,” badly so skill people, find a few staff, can often create a good situation. But we must remember that the staff watching chess, but also has his own chess game, do not finding someone to help, but missed his censure on the athletic field.
If you do not know the plan for the future is bound to be a star position is very bad; if you do not have staff, must be very lonely Go master; if you because of being good losers, but would like to turn the board, an early farewell to life, will certainly be the most stupid of the Go master. I ask you: how many pieces you have? How many gains you already have? You should be careful not to put what is left of pieces placed in the best position.
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Go beyond ourselves, beyond the others is our pursuit of life, to go beyond others, we must first go beyond ourselves, beyond the opportunity for everyone, etc.: the weak will lose opportunities, foolish man will wait for opportunities, the wise would be good grasp opportunities, will create strong opportunity to go beyond themselves, often the biggest enemy is our own, and only know themselves, to enrich themselves and challenge themselves, discover potential, with a self-confidence, and constantly surpass themselves it is hoped that the success is victory, that is, do our own , so that our lives would lead to success, be possible to go beyond their own.
Carnegie said: As long as you keep moving forward, not afraid of anything, you can find yourself, success will be your! Want to defeat themselves, self-confidence, first of all must go beyond self-esteem, low self-esteem as a negative state of mind, confidence is only one step away, if we go beyond it, change it as strenuously momentum, we will move toward success and excellence. Life is not how much to pay a certain number of harvest, but they must be harvested must be paid. Many people have been successfully shut out, is not a success out of reach, but they do not find themselves take the initiative to give up, finds that he will not succeed,
Perhaps human nature has long been a high-rise buildings in the cold rooms are almost gone, but I still hope that humanity can shine in the dark at a disadvantage that they can be a vast loneliness Yao was shrouded, and we should learn to take the initiative to learn, to make up for their own inadequacies in spirit to go beyond themselves, as long as the daily limit, we must go beyond himself a little bit of success they will automatically appear in your eyes.
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Successful, it is a general can cause a lot of topics. There are many ways to be successful, but one thing in common, that is action. To do one thing, as long as the start of action, even if half of the success obtained. Speech Masters Ziegler reminds us that the world’s largest locomotive traction parked on the tracks, in order to slip, just plug it in front of an eight wheel one inch square pieces of wood, this monster can not move. However, once the engine has started only a giant, this small piece of wood will no longer hold back of it;
When it reached speeds of 100 miles, the wall 5 feet thick, reinforced concrete walls can easily be hit by wearing it. From a small piece of wood so that it can not move, to be able to hit a wall wearing a steel and concrete wall, the engine power has become so huge, not because of anything else, because it is starting up. In fact, the people’s power will be huge, and many unimaginable obstacles will also be easy to break you, of course, the premise is: you must act. Otherwise, only know that Fu Xiang, such as a locomotive parked on the tracks, that even a small piece of wood can not be pushed. Perhaps the success of each of us the idea, the key is that you act? If not, then we immediately get started!
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