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By admin, February 24, 2010 6:41 am

Living in the busy, fast-paced day and age, we will find, as time goes by, the heart Yujue tired, slow the pace of the more gradually. Let us look at time calm life, you always see the tired faces, see the tired soul, a passion to see his face hidden under the indifference of the soul.
I still choose to do a real I still can not learn false, learning does not flatter, learning will not be smooth, this is my advantage is also my weaknesses. So I spat in such a choice to walk under her own life path, but I have no regrets on their own choice. Every time when the depressed mood, when being wronged, I will be angry, I will cry, I will be eager to one away from the hustle and bustle of the mountains, where the experience of a quiet, a real, a relaxed, one were being indifferent.
Life so fragile, life is short, if the desire too much, what are wants and what his mind refused, then the life-how to bear the burden? How can a happy life? Not to material happiness, not to have been sad, therefore, the pursuit of a being indifferent to, frankly face the harsh life of your gift, to indifferent attitude towards all the world, excluding gains and losses, do not panic honor, we will live with ease and live exciting live happily.

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Balzac said: “The frustration is like a stone, so that you dread, you are weak it hard, it is a stepping-stone for the strong to make you stand higher.” Newton also said that if you ask a good skate in people how to learn a success, and he will tell you that fell, get up! In the young people to study and life, will encounter many setbacks, if we are not able to correctly deal with frustration, setbacks, it will inevitably lead to the creation of student psychological and behavioral bias, or even result in weak-willed person brought to its knees , loss of interest in learning for life to lose confidence in the people bothered.
When confronted with difficulties, not the blame himself blindly, not irritable, not depression. Learn self-comforting, self-suggestion, self-motivation as a way to change his bad mood. To take reasonable and effective way to vent their emotions. When we encounter setbacks, they can trust to their own teachers and classmates Qing Shu, a friendly conversation with his family, and accept other people’s persuasion; or participation in physical activity for students to release pent-up emotions, and finding the right treatment approach. Will be a negative into a positive state of mental states to promote healthy personality development.
Frustrated by a strong mental outlook on life and objective factors alone can not may not work, resulting in relatively light psychological disorder; if a psychological setback occurred in the weak people who no longer the case, especially the partial character of depression people. Setbacks, we should look for remedies for this, will be setbacks into a drive for success, to adjust their own emotions. Rational analysis of the root causes of problems, to know themselves, understand themselves and the courage to face reality.

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Life can be divided into two parts.on the face of it the first is the process of making money.The second is expending money.The second process is the aim of first processs.The aim of second process is making living and enjoyment.For the purpose we have to study,to work and try ous best to make money. The first is pain and the second is gain.No pain no gain.In term of the way to do the two processes we can divide it into four categories as follows.

Firstly,making money in proper way and expending money properly too.We work hard and honestly and live healthly.This is the best and sustainable way of life.

Secondly,making money properly and expending money inproperly.For example some people are given to gambling with money made hard.This way is unsustainable and will lead to a condition that the more money one makes, the more harmful to him.

Thirdly making money inproperly and expending money properly.Some people make money by hook or crook which is harming other interest or against law.However this type of behavīor can be forgiven if the one help more people in need.I heard that Billgates become a professional philanthropist which make his controvercial first half of life shining.It is said that a wrongdoer achieves salvation as soon as he gives up evil.

Fourthly,making money inproporly and expending money inproprely too.Easy money easy go which will bring ruin and shame upon you at last.

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When I were a pupil I were into collecting stamp.I looked for used envelope everywhere and asked the master give the stamp on it to me.If agreed I immerse the envelope into water and take off the stampt from it then stick it to glass.when it dryes out I put it into my stamp album.Whenever I am free I enjoy the my colorful collection , fathom everyone’s content and take every oportunity to show off.

In the dull campus life stamp collcting was my meat and drink. Life beccme hopeful to me in view of it.

However.I took a serious knock when I saw a classmate stamp album.So many complete set of beautiful stamp which are spotlessly clean.Compared with it my collection is dirty and funny.The reason is simple that his stamp is buyed totally form post office.I feel ashamed and don’t want to have any look at to my poor collection again.At that moment I know what is philately and at the same time the importance of money. My family couldn’t afford money for me to buy stamp and my only spiritual pillar collapsed.I were thrown into hell of life.However,it made me think of something.

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Many people favour old song,not only because it is melodious bu also it is associated with some unforgettable memories.

I walk pass you lonely without a word

I hesitate to look up to your face

You ask me where to go

I point to the direction of sea

You are surprised which seems to give me praise

You lead me to your greenhouse

I cannot escape from the fragrancy of flower

I am lost and you are as beautiful as flower unconsciously

You say me most resilient in the world

I say you most kind in the world

You ask me to stay here as them

I say no looking at you silently

I want to go back to old place and walk on old road

Although I know clearly that I cannot leave you

Girl

I happen to hear the song ,greenhouse girl,at the last day in 2009 In Hunan TV.It remind me of Cuijian,used famous rock singer,and my campus time.

I were shocked by the song when I first heard it in middle school.I regarded Cuijian as my idol at once.Although I only saw him in the poster he lived in my mind.I imaginated him and imitated him each way although most of way he behaved is my imagination.

I never shaved off beard .I did’t get haircut until driven to barbershop by my parent.I no longer talked to girl and answered any question in class.I often missed class and wandered everywhere.If pocket money enough I would patronize restaurant.One day my classmate was in his house by himself and we drunk all night at his home.We sang and speaked all we wanted to say.I never said as much as that night.At that time electricity is in short supply especially in the winter night.I remember clearly a scene where my home sat around a light of candle and it was so dark outside that doomsday seemed to arrive.However I felt safe and warm.At that time it was very cold in winter and my parent were very young.

Time passes by silently.I experienced more and forgot more.I almost forgot Cuijian until I heard the song .I sudddenly figure out the idea the song means to express that I had never seen before,suffering and longing.However,when the superwoman Mis.Tan sang it I heard nothing but affectation.She fail to understand Cuijian and his time.Cuijian was no longer popular.His time passed.

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We learned the sentence that we mustn’t waste food because of farmers’ hard working since we were very young.I have always kept it in mind and try not to throw much food.However,wasting  includes more than food,there are many other parts we should also learn to save.

How can we save the things in our life?How can they be called “saving”?

Make the best use of things,which sounds very vague.Because everyone has different opinions about the things’ value.

Hehe,some people would feel uncomfortable if they don’t wear new clothes two or three days.Some people think the clothes useless which looks a bit washed-out.However some other people still think them fine to wear until they are broken,they say they have made the best use of the clothes.Although it sounds very countrified in the present world.But I think who say this sentence must be a very lovely person and understand how to learn to live.

Yeah,we are living in a lucky place and age,we needn’t to worry much about our food and clothing.However,we should remember that wasting is a very shameful forever and saving properly is a new good idea nowadays.

Saving is facing to all levels of people,of course,different salaries predict different consume thoughts.

If we have some old things we don’t want to go on using them,but they are still unbroken,we can make them clean and wrap well to put beside the dustbin,there will be some people need them.

Some always like changing the old things to the new ones.However,most of new things used in life carry more poison materials than old ones.

Yeah,when we think of these dangers existing around us,we can’t live securely and happily.Man are trying their best to earn the more money,develop our country and kill our man-kind at the meantime.

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who should we thank?
It’s certain to thank mum first who brought us to this world,no matter how ugly or selfish they are.Second,we should thank dad who has taught us too much principle.We learned to do things by his ways,yeah,he effects us too much,even we can keep his words in the deep heart all life.

Third,we should thank our lover for giving us a family which really belongs to us.We swim most freely and peacely in the sea of happiness.Family is always the strongest castle for us,it prevents us from hurting regardless of heavy raining or strong winds happening outside.
Forth,we should thank our children,they show us the real meaning of life,which makes us not live just as an utterly useless person who lives just for our own enjoyment.Let us understand there’s a kind of affection as deep as the sea,as endless as universe.
Fifth,thank all those who are kind to us,because of having them around us,the sky becomes bluer and clearer.They often give us good mood and make us feel more warmth out family.Our life would be more colourful ,we having so many lovely friends around us.Time is quietly passing,smiles and joyfulness accompanying us!It’s also a kind of luck to enjoy a preciousness of friendship.

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While you are sad,don’t worry too much and believe tomorrow will be a new start to bring you new joyfulness.

While you lose your love,don’t be sad,because it is maybe a new start for you to have a new real love from tomorrow.

While you aren’t well,you must be sure that only exercise can make you have a strong body and a healthy life,so decide to do more exercise from tomorrow.It’s a new start for you to breath the fresher air and enjoy the more splendid sunshine.

While you aren’t good at your lessons,don’t be chagrined so much.Tomorrow will be your new start to challenge with your willpower.You would understand what we study for,not only for knowledges,character is more important.

While you think you older and older,don’t be fretful,because you must buy new clothes or go to a good barber shop tomorrow to bring back a youthful you.You know so nice a world and wonderful things around you,try to catch more for yourself.

While you are lonely,don’t be afraid,tomorrow is coming.From tomorrow,to learn to be strong in heart and open a new friend circle.Try to change a bit the ways of living,just like being to be born again.

While you are disappointed or upset at working,don’t think too much about that.Tomorrow will be a new start to know what the job is.It’s just one kind of ways to earn money.It has no need of effecting your good mood.

While you miss him too much,from tomorrow to tell about your love,express all your feeling,which makes your love more significative and worth recalling one day.

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Lots of people doubt the God’s existing,however,I am sure she is controlling everything in the world.Where is she?I think she is anywhere,especially in our mind.No matter how we attach importance to our paying and gaining,they are all in her hands.Maybe too long time between paying and gainning,but I believe she is arranging for us all the time.

Although lots of people in some other countries think that people coming this world are just for some tribulation,I still hope to have a well-off life only this lifetime,and no next lifetime for me.Lots of people are always complaining about the current unfairness around them,I will tell them:Don’t worry,the God is fair,because she has a kind heart.If you have been a kind person,everything will be better!But you must keep a modest and quiet heart full of much patience.

Maybe some people’s fates would make most of the people think the God’s blind.But can we understand what is beyond our universe?or how many lifetimes for us?None knows yet.I think those who had the worst life but with a good heart would be sent to the nicer heaven in the end.Yeah,in this lifetime,they didn’t get the fairness,but they would be compensated in the next life time,or to compensate their children.

The God is just in our mind,take away all worries and fears,everything in life will be nicer!

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We wish to enjoy joys with others,especially with our friends.Sometimes we get carried away and can’t help showing the sense of happiness on our faces,or expressing by words.However,we seldom think about whether those people like to listen to our joys and share with us.Yeah,if it’s a joke or a funny thing in real life,maybe they would like to listen and break into laughter with us together.

But how would they feel when they hear about our things of happiness which are better than them?What would they think of us when hearing about the things you told which you do better than them?Everyone would ignore this,would our joys be theirs?

The answer is No.There is few people but family.

I will say,if you have a real friend who cares about you from deep heart,you are a very lucky man.

When we excitedly saying our more happiness,

maybe the listener is comparing to yours,she would be sad because of her less happiness.

Maybe the listener has strong jealousy and hate you better than her.

Maybe the listener is just listener and feel nothing with your words.Your joys are no relation to her.

Maybe the listener has already been fed up with your words and think them rubbish then.

Maybe your happiness and joys would hurt someone who are listening to you,because what your having is just what her losing.

So,say more jokes to others,don’t always speak of your happiness.

Being happy by stealth is OK.

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