Be happy by stealth behind others
We wish to enjoy joys with others,especially with our friends.Sometimes we get carried away and can’t help showing the sense of happiness on our faces,or expressing by words.However,we seldom think about whether those people like to listen to our joys and share with us.Yeah,if it’s a joke or a funny thing in real life,maybe they would like to listen and break into laughter with us together.
But how would they feel when they hear about our things of happiness which are better than them?What would they think of us when hearing about the things you told which you do better than them?Everyone would ignore this,would our joys be theirs?
The answer is No.There is few people but family.
I will say,if you have a real friend who cares about you from deep heart,you are a very lucky man.
When we excitedly saying our more happiness,
maybe the listener is comparing to yours,she would be sad because of her less happiness.
Maybe the listener has strong jealousy and hate you better than her.
Maybe the listener is just listener and feel nothing with your words.Your joys are no relation to her.
Maybe the listener has already been fed up with your words and think them rubbish then.
Maybe your happiness and joys would hurt someone who are listening to you,because what your having is just what her losing.
So,say more jokes to others,don’t always speak of your happiness.
Being happy by stealth is OK.
