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By admin, March 8, 2010 10:16 pm

A Friend returned from a trip, we were going for him. When having a meal, the friend say: “I will tell you a story last month, I go to the jiaodong. Through a village, suddenly a big dog come to me from afar, you say in that situation, what should I do?”
“Run affirmation is not, the best way is to stone.” One said.
“Yes, there is a saying that the dogs afraid ducks, when you pick up the stone, it will fall away. I was panic is doing. The dog to me when I was turned and ran down it. Beside a big suddenly ran from the ground, picked up a stone and threw in the past, hit the dog dog legs, and gave a cry, run farther.” Friend said.
I owe to the old man, but ye are ungrateful and angrily say: “you will play it, squat down old not dozen dog will not believe you, spoils.”
The friend, then say: “I think eldest brother ye say very plausible reason. The dog looks down, just because someone stoned, it is formed for a long time, but also a reflex between man and a dog. If you break the agreement, squat down but not dozen once, twice, it’s more often, it is no longer believe in you, whatever you call down, it will bite you suffer, finally you.”
One said: “, the surface is big in to help you dozen dog, actually in the deeper level to the long-term safety, maintenance is a kind of order.”
“Right.” The friend say: “many times, does not behave more terrible than violence. Violence and destruction of the surface is something not behave is destroyed a order, the foundations were shaken.”

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When I was a child, once helped mother go planted tomatoes seedling garden. I went straight to the tomato last year after planting land, is down to transplant, the mother has to stop me to say: “this can’t again in this field, we have to change the place.” She led me to the north-west garden, said: “this let tomatoes in here.” I don’t understand, he asked: “last year after the piece of ground tomatoes with branches in the shelf, then a need for more convenient, which is not?” Mother smiled and said: “if you don’t understand. Tomatoes in the same field, continuous growth will not happen, easy pests, output, so have a place in a move is not only the tomatoes., peanut, watermelon and other crops.
To obtain the tomatoes, can harvest it up in the same place, for the block has no longer suitable soil. We want to harvest the fruits of life, create the value of life, also must learn to change any situation, the most suitable for the development of a field “, and can never entrenched in the same field, hang on the same tree.
Read a story. A British youth love poems, his hair crazy like to write poems, vowing to become one of the greatest poets, but many years passed, he wrote a poem dedicated, but still unknown, the young man went into a deep depression and confusion. One day, on his home garden, a strong wind walk over the trees on the ground by blowing a nest. On the ground as he thought, to nest sad but pleasantly surprised to find that the birds have started in the branches of a new nest another building. He suddenly xi suddenly enlightened the eyebrows, as through the meaning of life: a “nest” was ruined, how to build a longer? Hence, he no longer bigotry, began in industry. A few years later, he became a successful entrepreneur. His name is Paul meyer, then when the chairman of the association of British winner.

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I decided to go to the adventurous, climbing aunt Mary her behind the mystery of the mountains. Uncle, ah mui said: “sorry, but I’m busy these days, because of my people are waiting for a meeting. When I have time to take you to go and if nobody took, you probably will get lost.”
I say: “what, if lost, I will use mobile telephone you, cries out to you.” Ah, uncle say with smile: “ok, I hope you won’t get lost, so I won’t keep clansmen meeting time.” Uncle, presided over the heads of their families, people in meeting the priority. I really don’t want to disturb him, so I confidently say: “not, I believe I can return safely.”
I finally started a person. The roads were very well, almost the top of the hill, suddenly blustery. Uncle said, must wait for the wind will continue to walk, I had to find a shelter, unfurled the hiding place. After an hour, I crawled out from the bag, sight unexpectedly has no way.
I turn in a circle, all the places are so familiar, the road looks, and not road, how to do? I decide to call for help, but the uncle, except that the sleeping bags, I had nothing. Must be just fit my baggage to the winds blow away.
When I was in despair, I suddenly found the bag from the map. Murphy’s uncle intentionally put in? I immediately to the spirit, follow the instructions of the map to find a smooth the way home.
A homecomings, just broke up uncle. I am pleased to uncle say: “today thanks to your map, otherwise I was back home. My baggage including mobile phones to the wind.”
Uncle oddly ask: “you of the map, where map?” I say: “you are in my bag.” Uncle took the map, suddenly ha laughed: “this is what map, which is your cousin of 4 years old picture of super Linda spider-man, you see, the line is not the long legs spider?”
I am surprised to say: “but, I was really take this” map “to find the way down.”
Uncle said: “you can successfully mountain, not the map of the credit, but your actions. Encounter difficulties, just wait, but not negative for methods to solve the problems, and will never lost! You know, there is no life on the map.”

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I have a friend Who had a serious illness in childhood, life is saved, but lower limbs was paralyzed. His father is a post office cadre, he graduated from high school in the post office to give him a job where I can sit motionless, wage and various benefits are there with ordinary. In this post, he worked for 3 years. Ordinarily, a heavy residue, can have a such security, stability of work should be very satisfied. Many of his health, are still in a career and confesses activity-they? But he has to resign because he is in the eyes of people, not only see the compassion, more see mercy and despise. His pride in the eyes and stabbed, so is his father’s face, and vertical KuQiu mother could not stop him.
He resigned after first opened a small bookstore, but less than six months because of urban house dismantlement and the reconstruction. Later, he was a small man jointly with the printing-house, also only lasted for more than a year, treachery and closure. Partners, Twice in the business, he didn’t succeed, but also his debt, parents and friends came unto him, and said, don’t you a disabled, how about hu ace of feet touch, how much more will your head too?! While his father and advised him in the leadership position, let him return to the post office is honest. But he didn’t turn, but also choose to run a restaurant. This time he draw lessons twice a year, before that, small profit 20,000 yuan, hotel and he opened two stores. Ten years later, he not only in the hotel chain in his city, but also continuously rooting around in the size of the city government opens. Naturally, he also became a successful career and the boss had beautiful girl do. When someone asked him to the successful experience, he said a lot, but he said the most important, don’t sympathize with yourself. Others, if his sympathy you sympathy, will become a coward, lose the power struggle, success is not possible.
In real life, is not only a disabled person, is the patients and healthy person, in setbacks and failures, also can produce pessimistic disappointment, the inferiority of self-pity. In this kind of mood, people often not hope others, is a setback, lose courage to try again. Don’t sympathize with you, to spur and criticism, introspection and review the reason for failure, will be out of the trap cowardice psychology.
Success often depends on whether to conquer oneself, the weak, and not for himself on the reason!

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A town of civil affairs that in order to solve the problem of increasing divorcee, specially invited a study of marital problems old professor came to lecture.
The old professor XuFaJieBai, came into the classroom, the hand of a questionnaire and carry two glass on the desk, no start prelecting, first picked up on the blackboard with chalk wrote a word: “no failure of marriage in the world.”
Under the podium, apparently everyone buzzing immediately to the old professor words disapproval. After a while, the old professor until the classroom calm down, open a question: “who feel their marriage is harmonious, please raise your hand.” No one hand in the classroom.
The old professor and a smile and say: “since you think their marriage is not harmonious, so here is a questionnaire, I know not the reason of marriage in harmony, please choose no reason, questionnaire to write. However, such as drug and gambling, violence, which involve the legal problems, not by marriage within the category, such as such circumstances please contact with the public security organs in.” Platform under a chuckle.
Everybody took a look, see above questionnaire with more than 100 answer: each other stubborn, wilful, smoking, drink, dance, stingy, nagging, fanaticism, infatuation online
The old professor questionnaire, and then back to show one. You find answers, each only choose one or two answers.
“Now I’ll check your current family situation.” The old professor and to everyone a questionnaire, with more than 100 numerous questions: whether revenues enough to keep the life? Whether you buy gifts for ever? If a child? Children are healthy and lively. Ill whether seasonable treatment? After the illness is received after each other
The old professor questionnaire, and one back again to demonstrate, each answer is almost entirely on an affirmative answer. The old professor put two questionnaires in front, slowly said: “there is nothing wrong with your marriage, feel the unpleasant, but due to some subtle magnifies the marriage of flaws, has neglected the side of happiness.”
The old professor, said to a glass of water, remove the pen and ink drops into the water drop out of ink drops in water, then slowly drops, eventually sank into the cup bottom, glass of water is still clear.
Then, the old professor finger stir the cup bottom, water ink immediately, the inside up immediately became muddy water. This time, the glass of water into the ink is three times more than the time to restore clear. The old professor again slowly put water into another cup, then the ink pour original cup bottom, another glass of water is clear.
Look below and thoughtful, old professor to longly say: “drop Chinese ink is changed into water, and it is not so muddy marriage?”
The old professor picked up the chalk, then the sentence on the blackboard “world no failure of marriage,” wrote another row behind the words: “the premise is the glass of water muddied don’t.”
“Consider, who gives you the water?” marriage, Professor turned, and suddenly stern question. All the men and women can ShuRan wrenching below, silence.
A philosopher once said: “everyone has stain, but this doesn’t mean that we pursue perfection of passion and courage, not hinder us to bloom as high as peony.” Also, the drip drip water ink marriage, often also is the one that developsover time, mixed with too many environmental impact and weakness, and prevent the formation of ink drops may impossible, but we don’t go, then stir it to take it out or can be accomplished. In fact, marriage in the water drops into the ink is not fearful, is not to think about how we pour ink, but kept stirring water.

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There was a time, my career and family are having trouble, jealousy, blundering, worries plagued me all day. A friend at me like very anxious, depressed and told me to a nearby mountain ChanYuan find abbot without wisdom, Jackson static busy resolve may help.
ChanFang, kindly, transcendental without wisdom, my son to Jackson doesn’t pour out their confusion and annoyance. No wisdom, and your right hand, Jackson laughed. “you made a fist, try”. I do. “Some” grip, “tight”, so I put too tight, knead fist clenched hand fingers into almost.
“How do you feel?” He kindly ask me.
I stared shook his head.
“Take out” fist. I open palm, without wisdom Jackson took a table QingZao and a piece of broken glass on my hand, say: “hold”. I put QingZao and debris in her hand. “Hold some”, “tight”. “No, my hand, Jackson is about to be cut.” I feel pain in the palm. Then, without wisdom Jackson suddenly shout: “that you still don’t hurry to loosen the fist!”
I was shocked and looked at hand, open palm red marks a chant, debris is to QingZao.
No wisdom Jackson looked at me and said: “now, debris out and throw.”
The pieces come out! No wisdom, is TiHu Jackson. This QingZao like my career and life, and this life is in the debris of bothering me envious, blundering, anxiety…
No wisdom Jackson looked at me expression, smiled and said: “seems to have been described. Living donor of things like this QingZao and glass fragments. If you don’t take anything, head, even use fist great strength, but also to them, this is in vain. QingZao like you the good things in their lives, and debris is bothering you, we work hard to produce in trouble. Will you hold it too tightly, they inevitably will hurt yourself, for you to hold more damage. Remember the time QingZao will throw out of the debris.
Look, listen and debris QingZao without wisdom Jackson’s, I suddenly enlightened. We should learn to distinguish what is around the QingZao pieces, and, what is it in QingZao debris, we should grasp the throw down, should be. Maybe it is easier said than done, but we must have the courage to do, isn’t it?

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When he was in university, we had to an old professor at home, infinite, talk, lofty as omnipotent. The old professor always smiling, not to participate in our various topics.
To everyone, he put forward a passion to do a test, we immediately came.
The old professor ask: “if you go to the mountain before cutting trees, just two tree, a tree, a thin, you can cut down a tree which?”
A problem, everyone said: “of course cut tree thick!”
The old professor smiled and said: “it was just a tree was the common, and the fine poplar trees such as Korean pine, now is a tree which you can cut down?”
We want to compare, Korean pine, he said: “the precious of Korean pine, poplar also cut worth!”
The old professor with constant smile at us, ask: “that if poplars are straight, and Korean pine has seven slanting eight twist, you can cut down a tree which?”
We have some doubts, he said: “if so, or cut poplar, Korean pine, do anything!”
The old professor eyes flashing, we suppose he will add conditions, and sure enough, he said: “although straight poplar, mostly because of, among many days, then the empty, you can cut down a tree which?”
Although the old professor couldn’t understand what the bottle gourd sell drugs, we still from his conditions, said: “the Korean pine, poplar were cut down or hollow, more useless!”
The old professor then asked: “but Korean pine, though not hollow, but it is too bad, distortion cut up very difficult, you can cut down a tree which?”
We consider him straight-tempered also don’t really want to draw any conclusions, and then said: “it is cut down, also didn’t what old poplar, of course, pick to cut down!”
The old professor not breathing to ask again: “but a nest, poplar above a few young birds are hiding in the nest, you can cut down a tree which?”
Finally, someone asked: “professor, you asked to ask to lead us to a cut of poplar, while Korean pine, choose always cut with your conditions change, increased to tell us what you really, what?”
The old professor pack smiling, say: “you how nobody, ask yourself why cut trees? Though I conditions changing, but ultimately result depends on your original motive. If you want to take, you can cut the poplar wood, handicraft, Korean pine, of course not. You cut reason with an axe uphill tree!”

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Zoologists study birds jerry lived for many years, he is behind the villa, there is a bird of mangrove paradise, a bird, but most necks this bird was too stupid, always by other animals. In order to enhance the bird’s ability to escape, jerry stole a newborn cub necks intelligent home bird.

The young birds in jerry necks under grew, and training with such skill: will fire drill, small to just can accommodate necks bird body of fire without hesitation, also can drill in the past. So the fires, necks bird met when they managed to escape;, Will in no hurry to the wire or ShuTeng from been pulled out of a toe, Together with DiHai, jerry thinks it is the key, if encounter Nemesis, necks, they will be consistent foreign bird will greatly improve the chances of survival.

At the birds performances, jerry smiled.

After a month, jerry to see he was put back the mangrove, want to see their necks birds to learn how to “intelligent” training. However, the surprise is that the woods should lay a lot of dead birds necks. From their feet, those small hoop is elaborate train “intelligent” necks bird.

Jerry was aghast. The anatomy, jerry have learned, and not die, but outside of die of starvation. Originally, jerry, although many of the church, but not taught their skills to feed.

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In this world there are a few people have such wise thoughts. Desire is inexhaustible. In the summit of success, few people give up.
Very early someone say: eat your cake and have it, we must have a choice, and give up, can get more things. Although it is simple, but make up is very complicated.
On the journey of life, carrying on the past achievements or failure of shadow is very tired. Only know a choice, the choice, who will have a relaxed beautiful journey.
Choose a life of success is the direction, only knowing the talent will understand our strengths, will have more brilliant life.
Remember a scholar said a word: give wise for life is a wise choice, only knows when to give up everything will turn. Life is like acting, everyone is his only to select the director, and learn to give up the talent can create a wonderful film, with the realm of life brighter.
Select and give up and not to go, but need to negative thoughts of wisdom and largeness of mind. And in the choice of the path in life, the way to succeed is to selectively choose to give up, is very important.
One can’t do very perfect, the advantage is not what you have, if extortionary to competition, will only end is mixed. We need to do is give YingPin opponent, we need to build his perfect is the advantage, and try not to involve themselves.

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By admin, February 24, 2010 6:41 am

Living in the busy, fast-paced day and age, we will find, as time goes by, the heart Yujue tired, slow the pace of the more gradually. Let us look at time calm life, you always see the tired faces, see the tired soul, a passion to see his face hidden under the indifference of the soul.
I still choose to do a real I still can not learn false, learning does not flatter, learning will not be smooth, this is my advantage is also my weaknesses. So I spat in such a choice to walk under her own life path, but I have no regrets on their own choice. Every time when the depressed mood, when being wronged, I will be angry, I will cry, I will be eager to one away from the hustle and bustle of the mountains, where the experience of a quiet, a real, a relaxed, one were being indifferent.
Life so fragile, life is short, if the desire too much, what are wants and what his mind refused, then the life-how to bear the burden? How can a happy life? Not to material happiness, not to have been sad, therefore, the pursuit of a being indifferent to, frankly face the harsh life of your gift, to indifferent attitude towards all the world, excluding gains and losses, do not panic honor, we will live with ease and live exciting live happily.

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